Saturday, July 24, 2010

A Malay Wedding



Normally a Muslim wedding even in Malaysia, Indonesia or even in Negara Brunei Darussalam, the tradition of wedding normally take a week. They usually begin on a Wednesday with several private ceremonies taking place at the bride`s parents` home. `Akad nikah’ takes place on Friday; the government officer will arrive at home and officially register the marriage. On Saturday night, the `Malam Berinai’ ceremony takes place and guest may be invited to witness the staining of the bride`s hands. On Sunday, there is great excitement as the groom comes to the house; this is called the `Bersanding Ceremony’. The couple site on throne chairs placed on a colorfully decorated and light stage where the elders bestow their blessing. Large tents, serving tables and chairs are placed in the garden for hundreds of guests to join in the celebration and to eat the many wonderful foods that have been prepared. The couple will remain at home until the following Wednesday when they will go to the groom`s parents home where gifts are presented.

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